The DMV
In Colorado it comes around every 5 years. Or, according to the signs haphazardly posted
around the Driver’s License office (could you call it an office?) more often if
you want to get your driving privileges back by paying your tickets and child
support.
I walk in, Jack in tow, and present myself at the first counter. A humorless lady asks what I want. “A renewal.” I hand her my current license. She asks boy or girl. Boy, I tell her. “How old?” 11weeks. “Here’s a number, you need a statement with your address and we only take cash or check.” My bank is at the other corner of the shopping center so I drag Jack a block down in 100 degree windy heat (feels like a convection oven) and return with cash and proof of address. Next line. It’s assumed that you’re going to spend a considerable part of your day in line at the DMV when you’re unfortunate enough to have to go there but I’m still never quite prepared for the experience. The place is packed. Is there a DMV that isn’t? I’m all the way in a different line and the lady back at first counter asks again how old my kid is. And she does it in such a way that makes me look around to see if there are any other kids because A: she already asked, and B: was just awkwardly quiet enough that I honestly didn’t know she was talking to me, until I realized she was talking to me.
I make it up to counter #2 to talk with socially awkward DMV
worker #2. He asks me a series of questions
so quietly that I wonder if I’m losing my hearing. I see his lips moving but its hard to know if
I’m answering questions correctly and then I start to panic because what if,
horrors, I answer incorrectly and lose my license forever? Or will be forced to pay child support to some other child I don’t know I had? Apparently I answer
stunningly because after only a couple minutes he smiles and motions for me to
wait for counter #3 where I will get my temporary papers and photo taken. I ask him if I can just keep my photo of 5
years ago. He smiles and says no. Here’s the thing with Colorado: Your license
is good for 5 years, like I mentioned before, and I feel a lot of pressure to
have a decent photo. I already look
be-draggled. Sure its only one in the
afternoon but I’m not one to put a whole lot of stock in my morning beauty regimen
so by noon my hair was in its typical matted frazzed (yes, I just made that
word up) bun-ponytail and after spending even a moment out in the heat my face had procured
a greasy glaze. I gave myself a
pep-talk. “You are not vain, you don’t
care, the glimpse you got of yourself in the shop window was decent enough and
for heaven sakes you have a 14lb 11 week old you’ve just toted around for the
past hour like an Olympic medal depended on it.
You’ve got your smile. Just give a good smile and maybe it will distract
from the fact that it looks like a band of chimps attacked your hair.”
I wait in line for counter #3. It’s the changing of the guards and another
humorless lady steps up to the desk. My
name is called. I step up. She mumbles for me to verify everything on
the slip of paper. I repeat what she
says to make sure I heard her right. She
glances at me like I’m an idiot. She
asks me to sign the bottom of the paper but to stay inside the box. I passed the vision test without my glasses, kept Jack happy and quiet the entire time and
offered to donate my kidneys. I got this. I madly sign what I think is my best
signature yet. This is NOT one of those
times when you want to step outside of the box.
A piece of a letter slips outside the box. She scowls.
“Ugh, I have to get another one.” Oops.
This time I tone it back. Not my
best but at least I stayed in the box. She
asks me to step up to the hanging blue background and look at the blue dot. OK. Now is my time to shine. I may look ridiculous but I can pull it
together with a smile. I stand there
smiling not wanting to miss my opportunity.
She mumbles something else and just as I’m about to say “what?” she
flashes the camera. Crap. I lost my smile and I’m fairly certain I
blinked. “I think I blinked” I tell
her. She says to wait a second. “Uhmm, Its fine” She responds. “Your new license will be sent to you in the
mail within the next 30 days.” “NEXT!” (And was that a smirk I detected?) I’m pretty sure she planned that. Glad I could make her day.
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